Captured by Sarah Photography ~ August 29, 2012

Thursday, June 5, 2014

update on Kim

This month's update on Tim's niece:

 

June 4, 2014

Posted 20 hours ago
On June [May?] 19, Kim saw Dr. Snow, her psychiatrist who had overseen her care while she was at Meriter Hospital. It was a very encouraging appointment for me. She will be Kim's overseeing doctor when Kim leaves Clearview. She hadn't seen her since leaving Meriter in January and was pleased with Kim's progress, but was surprised that she still had her g-tube in place since it is not being used. If Dr. Snow had the authority to make the decision, she would have had it removed.
Every doctor seems to have a differing opinion about how permanent Kim's personality change is. Many say personality changes caused by traumatic brain injuries are permanent. Dr. Snow was fairly encouraging that Kim may return to her pre-accident personality as she has come far in her recovery already. Dr. Snow was quick to add that it could take years. Some of the personality changes are better than others - she has a boldness that she did not have in the past. This is a good thing when she is sharing how God has helped her through her brain trauma, but not so good if she hears about anything that is hurtful to animals, including hunting. She has no problem speaking her mind when she feels animals are not being treated right, and we have had to redirect her to keep her from angrily voicing that opinion. Another personality change area is with some of Kim's age-inappropriate mannerisms or responses. She isn't as impulsive as she had been, but we and her therapists continue to work on proper actions and responses. She has to re-learn to think through actions and their consequences before doing them.
I was also encouraged by Dr. Snow's willingness to work with Kim to get her off some of the anxiety/depression medications. It can't be done quickly, but I'm thankful she is open to my concerns of the effects of these medications.
Kim finished reading her first novel this week. It was a goal Dr. Baskaya challenged her with back in March, so it has taken several months compared to only days she would have finished it in before her accident. But, it is a goal accomplished. One step makes the next one easier.
Kim's appetite has gotten better as she has been asking for additional helpings at some meals and it doesn't take her an hour to eat a meal. She still doesn't seem to be able to keep the weight on though, and that has been discouraging to her and all of us.
Kim had a special time with her brother Scott being home from Florida for a few days. He was good therapy for her - lots of laughing and spending time with her. The last time he saw her, she was still at Meriter and had her jaw wired shut so he saw a lot of progress. Those of us who see her daily or weekly don't see the progress until we think back to where she was several months ago.
Next week I have another progress report meeting at Clearview and will get their estimate of time to discharge.
We are thankful for all those who continue to pray for Kim's progress.

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

whew. {volume three}

As of today's Shutterfly order, the Cattleman now has 'baby' books thru 2012. 

Time for me to do something else for a change?  :-)


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Monday, May 26, 2014

Memorial Day

 

 

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O beautiful for spacious skies,
For amber waves of grain;
For purple mountain majesties
Above the fruited plain!
America! America!
God shed His grace on thee,
And crown thy good with brotherhood,
From sea to shining sea.

O beautiful for heroes proved
In liberating strife,
Who more than self their country loved,
And mercy more than life!
America! America!
May God thy gold refine,
Till all success be nobleness,
And every gain divine.

O beautiful for patriot dream
That sees beyond the years
Thine alabaster cities gleam,
Undimmed by human tears!
America! America!
God mend thine every flaw,
Confirm thy soul in self control,
Thy liberty in law.

Friday, May 23, 2014

longer version of a short story?

 

May 1

Flew to NC.  Met and chatted with Kelly on our MPS-CLT flight.  She showed me pictures of her handsome boys among other topics.  She told me she was terrified of flying, so we tried to keep her focused on anything but the air turbulence and the pilot’s veteran status, or lack thereof  {who knows? could we please see his resume?}  :-)

Met up with my folks at Charlotte and loaded our baggage into a spiffy-looking black suburban while wishing for a pair of Ray-Bans to complete the look. 8-)   Found some lunch at Wendy’s and decided that Andrea {Tim’s android} was right when she said we were going the wrong direction.  Found our way to Shelby after all – and even a driveway to enter our hotel parking lot {eyes roll} – it was a bit of a challenge the entire stay {not a real complaint, just a source for laughter and applause for our beloved driver}.  And at last headed over to the campus in Lattimore to find Daniel.  Joined him for supper in the dining hall before his choir’s concert.  Enjoyed a great appetizer for the ears by arriving early enough to hear several talented musicians provide a wonderful prelude.

You can actually watch the concert on YouTube here:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5J7hzxw5UrU

May 2

Attended the Baccalaureate Chapel Service, where we enjoyed preaching by Daniel’s favorite {or one of} evangelist, Dwight Smith. 

Also available online!  You can listen here:  https://www.ambassadors.edu/Resources/Sermons/Event/

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Waited in the book store/commons while Daniel had commencement practice and photos.  Found our way to a restaurant  called Fatz for a great dinner with a sweet waitress who wasn’t afraid to sit down in our booth and chat a while.  Gotta love the friendly South – and their fried rolls. 

Tim had found a carrousel listed in the area attractions that he thought my folks would enjoy seeing…  It has been well-restored in lovely building in a large city park.  Mom & I took lots of pics to share with my aunt who is very involved with our carousel here at home.

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The little train looked like fun too!

Decided we wouldn’t need to worry about much supper until after the evening service.  Dr. Comfort’s {founder of Ambassador Baptist College} message preached at Commencement is also available at the above link.  My mom suggested we arrive early in hopes of another lengthy prelude – and she was {we were} not disappointed.

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I need to ask Daniel again to explain the different graduate gown colors.  Yellow, blue, red, black…

Daniel had told us about another place to eat in Shelby – a tiny drive-thru-only called Cookout.  His favorite item is a peanut butter fudge shake.  Mom & Dad agreed that a shake would be a sufficient supper for them too.  Sooo while Daniel talked to his friends at school and delivered a few items for them to store over the summer, we ventured to the looong dual-line of customers who also thought it was a good night to place an order at Cookout.  Which allowed us enough time for Tim to jump out and take a photo of the menu listing about 40-some shake flavors.  Delicious.  And worth the wait.

May 3

Saturday morning we were up and ready to head for home.  {Tim went over and helped Daniel finish packing his multiple suitcases, loaded him up, then picked us up…}  Off to Charlotte we went!  This time with the additional help of Bertha, Mom & Dad’s TomTom GPS.  Must say that even the TSA workers are friendly in Charlotte – maybe we were amongst a steady stream of friendly passengers too?  It was a good start to our day anyway  {except maybe for Daniel who forgot to pull his laptop out of his bag.  He received a friendly scolding.}

Met another friendly passenger on the flight to Chicago – a younger career {Wells-Fargo} woman who was headed home for a visit with her family.  We swapped some entertaining travel and family stories before she took a nap and I returned to my book.  I was thankful Kelly from MN was not on that flight as it was much rougher air.  Bit of a roller coaster at some points.   o.O

Arrived home to Daniel’s happy siblings… with a supper of homemade pizzas, Caesar salad, and of course, the strawberry cake!

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Thursday, May 22, 2014

who needs sleep?

50% off sale combined with a $20 coupon code. 
Equals this book for $12, most of which is the shipping cost.
Thank you, Shutterfly.

Yeah, the 12th Hour Blitz is my modus operandi apparently.

Good Night/Good Morning.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2014

what's up...

When shutterfly gives us coupon codes...
We make photo books. 

14 years ago, this boy was just a wee, bald baby!


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Tuesday, May 6, 2014

daybook 5/6/2014

 

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For today… Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Outside my window... it is quite dark now, but it was a lovely sunny day.


Hearing...  the Computer Geek and me both tapping away at computer keyboards.


Pondering... how late Tim will work tonight; that I was just telling a friend this evening how I need to go to sleep earlier at night {um, yeah, and wondering just why I am starting a blog post instead??}


Praying... Denise – chemo & radiation this week; Sarah – continued health issues of her own AND she’s out of town this week to care for her mom who’s having hip replacement surgery tomorrow; Kim; Kate & Abby; the Lockwood family


Thankful... for a new grand-niece born today. {just had a phone call to announce her arrival}; for a good trip out to NC and back – Daniel is HOME!


Creating... a bleary brain.


Going... to bed soon! 


Reading... {just finished on Saturday} The Midwife’s Revolt – historical fiction set in New England during US War for Independence


In the kitchen... spinach smoothies, fresh bread.  May’s menu plan is on tomorrow’s essential list.


In the learning rooms... closer and closer to summer break. 


Around the house… our ironing ‘pile’ multiplied like bunnies! 

The Mother Load... ironing obviously – even if I refuse to iron Daniel’s shirts for him.  Make dentist and chiropractor appointments; the floors still need mopping; order books for next school year…


Noticing that... the younger kids get SO excited when an older sibling returns home :D


One of my favorite things... pecan pie {I enjoyed a mini pecan tart tonight at a bridal shower}


A few plans for the rest of the week... calling US Cell again about Abby’s phone that is still AWOL

A peek into my world...

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Giving credit where credit is due:

While I am not linking up with anyone, you could read more weekly news posts at other blogs by following any of these links:

  • Julie for adapting this daybook version as her own ‘Grasshopper Days’ ~ Perhaps I could call it the GHV Daybook. :)

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Take heed to the ministry which thou hast received in the Lord,

that thou fulfil it. Colossians 4:17